A 501(c)3 non-profit · The Power of Us
The divides begin within us.
And so do the bridges.
Division and polarization are splintering our world. We help you transform yourself — then transform the world — one relationship across difference at a time.
The Power of Us
“…until the world remembers it isn't as broken as it believed.”
Go Inside
Transform yourself
Transform yourself — measure & discover your unconscious patterns, your purpose...lead with brilliance, heart, & courage — across differences for the arena that calls you.
Begin within →
Go Outside
Transform the world
Transform the world – grow Relationships Across Difference— one conversation, one connection at a time — until the world remembers it is not as broken as it believed.
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These offerings are, without a doubt, the finest I've experienced in my years of doing this work.
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The way the future could be
We could weave a world where the stranger across the divide becomes a neighbor — and healing becomes a practice, not a hope.
Measure
A research-based, scientifically valid assessment reveals the unconscious patterns shaping how you meet difference.
Integrate
Learn to leverage the assets of all three patterns — no blame, no shame — to unlock your purpose and effectiveness.
Catalyze
Become a catalyst for solidarity and meaningful change across difference in your family, organization, and world.
The Power of Difference Model
Three unconscious patterns — within each of us.
Across religion, race, class, culture, gender, disability, sexual orientation and politics, three patterns of thinking shape our worldview. Awareness and integration of their assets is the key to connection, effectiveness and empowerment.
Difference Diminished
The pattern that minimizes difference in pursuit of harmony and sameness — its asset is unity and belonging when consciously leveraged.
Difference Magnified
The pattern that foregrounds and protects difference — its asset is awareness, justice, and the courage to name what others avoid.
Difference Integrated
The pattern that holds both unity and distinction — its asset is the capacity to bridge, translate, and lead across the divide.
FREE · 4 MINUTES
Discover your Race Pattern.
Take the complimentary Race Pattern Quiz (RPQ) and discover your primary unconscious pattern related to race. Get your results by email with downloadable insights on how it shapes your interactions across difference.
4 min
to change how you see the world
- Personalized results by email
- Downloadable insights
- No blame, no shame
- A clear next step
THE EVOLUTION OF DEI
A new set of assumptions.
The Power of Difference Model represents the next evolution of diversity, equity & inclusion — asset-based, internal-first, and built for lasting transformation.
COMMON DEI ASSUMPTIONS
The old model
- Change is driven by external pressure
- Blame & shame as motivators
- One-size-fits-all training
- Leads to burnout and defensiveness
- Compliance over transformation
THE PDM APPROACH
The Power of Difference
- Transformation begins within each of us
- Asset-based — no blame, no shame
- Experiential, constructivist learning
- Reduces DEI burnout, builds courage
- Impact aligned with intention
FIVE STEPS · FOUR MINUTES
Five steps (in 4 minutes) to change the world.
An asset-based path that starts within you and ripples outward — here's what it offers and what it makes possible.
FEATURES
- Groups or individuals
- Tiered offerings & packages
- Experiential / constructivist learning
- No blame or shame
- Free resources
- Donation-based group coaching
- Research-based assessment
OUTCOMES & BENEFITS
- Greater effectiveness across differences
- Reduced DEI burnout
- Impact aligned with intention
- Solidarity across differences
- Pride without prejudice
- Refuse both silence & violence
- Personal clarity, mission & fulfillment
- Accountability without blame or shame
Choose your pathway
Tiered offerings for individuals & groups.
Start free, then go as deep as you’re ready to. Every pathway is available for individuals or organizations.
Free
Race Pattern Quiz
Discover your primary unconscious pattern in about 4 minutes, with results and insights delivered to your inbox.
Take the quiz →
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$47 · or free with 3 referrals
Power of Difference Assessment
The full research-based assessment measuring all your patterns across difference — the foundation for real, comprehensive change.
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7 levels
Certification Program
A 7-level, pay-what-you-can certification — retooled for education, business, HR, healthcare, government & nonprofits.
Get certified →
Donation-based
Coaching & Practice Groups
Free workshops, donation-based weekly practice groups, and coaching packages for individuals and teams.
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Relationships Across Difference
Be a leader in belonging.
Join the experiment — a simple, weekly opportunity to cultivate real connection across our differences. Partner on the launch of the “Power of Us” game and help weave a less broken world.
Get started
Begin your journey across difference today.
Take the free quiz
Discover your primary unconscious pattern in 4 minutes — results by email.
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Launching personal and organizational fulfillment through the rocket fuel of our differences. A 501(c)3 non-profit founded in 2006.
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